My intelligence and curiosity are my tried-and-true ways of connecting quickly with people: that comes easily to me. However, what really is important to me the most is the heart and the spirit and physical affection/connection. The sensuality of life. I don't expect perfection in my relationships but I do expect effort. As I have grown older, things that once mattered have drastically changed. I am looking for deeper and more solid qualities like responsibility, integrity, and honesty. A sense of humor is a must and someone who does not sweat the small stuff.